{"id":39889,"date":"2020-09-13T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?p=39889"},"modified":"2020-09-10T10:13:06","modified_gmt":"2020-09-10T08:13:06","slug":"the-column-with-simone-b-michielen-children-burden-or-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/en\/lifestyle\/expats-in-slovenia\/the-column-with-simone-b-michielen-children-burden-or-joy\/","title":{"rendered":"The Column with Simone B. Michielen: Children, burden or joy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>To make it clear, I love children. Babies, toddlers, teenagers, you name it and I will love and take care of them. <\/strong><\/h2><p>I also\ntotally understand parents who are surrounded by diapers, toys and a conversation\nthat stops at a child\u2019s level. Despite the hormones that make you blinded by\nlove and your judgement a little bit coloured (to say the least), it seems\nnormal that you want to be your old charming self again and dress up and go out\nfor a nice lunch or dinner. Bringing your little ones, trusting they will enjoy\nyour choice as much as you do. They don\u2019t. I know, because I am the one at the\nother table, with my partner, friend or client.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" data-src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-39891 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-100x100.jpg 100w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 750px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 750\/750;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-39891\" srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_1620-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><p>Last week I went for a culinary lunch in one of my favourite restaurants. I still had a voucher which I bought during our lock-down. I was looking forward to enjoy a peaceful 6-course degustation menu on one of the most beautiful terraces in my part of Slovenia. They were preparing for a wedding that afternoon, but that didn\u2019t bother at all. Service was perfect, as always, and the food delicious. Did I mention peaceful? It was, until\u2026 a young boy couldn\u2019t deal with his chair anymore. It was time for action! For him that meant running around the terrace, crossing the set up for the band and being chased by an adult from the same table. First reaction? I was surprised and expected that the person chasing would stop him. She didn\u2019t. They went on and on, at the table where he came from nobody seemed to notice, the staff did, but I think they didn\u2019t want to offend their guests. At the point it became so distracting that I didn\u2019t know what I was eating anymore, I said something and it stopped. The people at the table next to us thanked me.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" data-src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39892\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39892\" class=\"wp-image-39892 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg 640w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-100x100.jpg 100w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/640;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39892\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39892\" class=\"wp-image-39892\" srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636.jpg 640w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/db1d2420-90cb-4ffa-8fd5-463cf2bb4636-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" data-src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39893\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39893\" class=\"wp-image-39893 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-100x100.jpg 100w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 750px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 750\/750;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39893\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39893\" class=\"wp-image-39893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2564-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" data-src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39894\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39894\" class=\"wp-image-39894 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-100x100.jpg 100w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 750px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 750\/750;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"39894\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/?attachment_id=39894\" class=\"wp-image-39894\" srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553.jpg 750w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2553-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure><p>Isn\u2019t it\nodd? I totally understand the boy. Sitting at a table, the people around you are\ntalking just to each other and clearly there is nothing exciting to do, how\nlong can you take that? So parents, this is the point where I really want to\nask you to do him (and us, other guests) a big favour. Realise that your children\nare maybe not ready for some locations or activities that you love to go to.\nGive them a break and let them stay at home with a babysitter, or chose your\ndestination or menu for a lunch or dinner with them in mind and don\u2019t make it\nlast longer than one hour. Maybe chose a restaurant that has playing\nfacilities. Your time will come again, I promise.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" data-src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-39895 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572.jpg 640w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-560x420.jpg 560w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-265x198.jpg 265w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-600x450.jpg 600w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/480;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-39895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572.jpg 640w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-560x420.jpg 560w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-265x198.jpg 265w, https:\/\/the-slovenia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/IMG_2572-600x450.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><p>Friends of\nmine went to a wedding lately. The bride and groom were so brave to put in\ntheir invitation that children were not welcome. I think they should have that\nchoice. Children are cute, but also very dominant and real game changers. In\ntourism, \u201cadults only\u201d destinations are more and more popular, also by parents.\nI think I don\u2019t have to tell you why. By the way, I was happily babysitting\nduring the wedding party, a win-win situation!<\/p><p>As said, I love children, also yours. But not running around my table, interrupting a conversation or screaming because they had enough. So practise at home, and bring them when they are old enough and know how to behave. 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